“Advice is like common sense. That is to say common sense is not so common but everyone beliveves they have their best”
In the world today many people ( friends/family/colleagues) have an voice an advice for you.
Just ask a question around and you will see how almost everybody will give you some advice.
But most of the time the common advice you receive from many people is garbage and instead will stop you from rising up.
Many even give you some same dumb advice that they follow thinking they are somehow helping you when even they themselves have not succeeded using the crappy advice.
Classic example is one of my family member who is unemployed from a long ass time but every time we meet gives me advice on how one should be employed and stuff
THE UGLY TRUTH IS THAT NORMAL ADVICE SUCKS IF YOU EVER WANT TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS/GOALS
The Ugly truth is the advice you take from this clowns is designed to make you fail. They will say ” we just do not want to see you get hurt. ” In reality they mean is ” we are afraid you will follow your own thoughts and succeed.
As I said previously many in your life want you to fail so that they can then say to you “I told you so”.
Parents/sibling/freidms/collegues/ partners/spouse etc many can come under this scenario.
So how to decide which advice you must take then?
How to decide the advice you are going to follow is going to really helpful to you ?
How do you know what you are being advised is the proper and best way to achieve your goal?
There is a very simple formula for this.
Always taking the advice of someone who has fucking walked the walk and done what you want to do
If you want to body build take advice from a fucking bodybuilder
If you want to lean how to draw learn.from someone who is an accomplished painter.
If you want help regarding getting high then consult a fucking junkie one who is 9 clouds high all the time.
You see, I discussed this earlier also but many people still email.me asking how which advice should they take.
I say fucking take the advice from someone. Who has walked the walk.
Not from some ass hole who has zero clue about what you are asking for.
Not from an armchair expert who has all the theoretical knowledge in the world but is absolutely worthless when you need practical knowledge.
One email I received was like.this –
My parents want me to do Post graduation so that I will find a good job and become rich. I don’t want to do PG as I have many people who have done that but are not rich by any means even after 2 decades. I mean they are good to do ,normal earners but that’s not what I want for myself.
I want to just be like my uncle who runs a electric appliances wholesale and is rich.
I am confused as my uncle tells me to become like him I must start directly learning with him and not give a crap about the formal education.
I want to be working with my uncle but also I don’t want to hurt my parents. I am confused what to do ?*
Well bud listen here. You have a great fire in you which is evident by the fact that you are at least sure of what you want. That puts you at an advantage than 90% of the population out there.
As far as hurting your parenrs is concerned you can’t do much.
Possible they want you to live a mediocre life and be at a job and live life the normal way
But that is their wish not your.
You are not confused or any such shit . You know exactly what you want from your life. What is lacking is just the will power.
Once you get the will power nothing will be able to stall or stop you from what you want.
but its up to you to decide – do you want to live a life long full of thinking “what if” or are you going to get out there and do something about it?
So get that will power and do what you want to do.
Remember guys, advice is a double edged sword so handle it carefully .
The advice you get is normally opposite of the advice you want.
To get good advice for yourself always take it from someone who has already achieved what you want.
Advice is like an asshole.
Eveeyone has one
So tread carefully