We have all been there.
Love someone unconditionally and then get your heart broken.
This feels like a tremendous loss at that time but if you want you can convert this negative force into positive and work on improvement and apply in next relationship.
1-GET A NEW ONE
Most important aspect is to know that the moment someone else comes in your life you will forget about her. That’s the reason why some people bounce back so quickly from relationship breakups. Some call this bounce back relationship or shit but I have seen cases where this bounce back temporary relationship turned into a marriage and family.
2-CUT OUT THE SOUL MATE BULLSHIT.
When one gets in a relationship he expects it to be just like it is in the movies. Newsflash. The movies feed you bullshit and real life rarely works out like that. She was not your soulmate or some stupid thing like that. All she was someone who you dated for a while.
If you believe she was the one/ soulmate then you would probably be together still now. But you aren’t so she was not your soulmate. Get over it.
3- Grieve a bit….but not a lot
Breakups are normal. Sometimes shit doesn’t work out as we expect and it turns sour.
Grieving is normal under such circumstances. Get it out a bit. Maybe a month or so and then after this period make a commitment to not grieve again and go ahead and live your fucking life.
4- GET IN SHAPE, HIT THE GYM
This is one which I find works for a lot of guys. The thing is when someone breaks up with you the most affected thing is your self esteem/ worthiness.
By joining a gym / bodybuilding you will be able to see progress in the mirrors and that will rebuild your self worth. Who knows maybe you could also land a date with a fit chick in the process.
The above are a few points which I believe are very important for getting over a breakup.
The most important thing is to always have some fixed goals/ mission in life to which you are dedicated as a man as opposed to making a woman your entire point of attention.
Humans especially women work in odd ways. The moment a woman will know she is the centre of your freaking universe she will cease to find you attractive.
Strange but true.
Till next time.